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Week 6: How to Live Slowly

March 7th by may

Dear Adri,

So. Coming back to London from Valencia was a complete bummer.

It’s just a two-hour flight away, but it feels like crossing worlds. It’s leaping from 19C weather back into a proper British winter. Trading long lunches for a cardboardy prawn mayo sandwich from Pret. Switching from long afternoons on the Malvarossa beach to a crammed carriage on the Circle Line.

Valencia lives and breathes like a typical coastal city: unhurried, calm, and accommodating. Neither business district nor summer resort cliche, it moves at a pace equally dictated by obligation and leisure. People emerge in the mornings for work as they should, but the streets empty out by noon during siesta. Dinner is always late – restaurants are bare at 8pm but fill up closer to 10.

It reminded me a lot of Italy when I used to live there. People took their personal time very seriously. Siesta, or the Italian pausa was sacred — you didn’t set up appointments at noon. You wouldn’t try to nip over to the post office to run errands on your lunch break.

I spent my first few days as a clueless foreigner wondering why the shutters were mysteriously drawn on all the shops along my street at 1pm. I couldn’t guess where everyone disappeared to for two hours in the middle of the day! When my flatmate explained the centrality of pausa – a break, a necessary interlude – in the day’s proceedings, I began to see how it represented a larger commitment to moderation. People were purposeful without being stressed, they ate well but not excessively. Daily life was a routine that could be appreciated.

Valencia has that same familiar hum in its streets. It urges you to stroll instead of stride. It makes you wait patiently for your lunch when you’re at a restaurant, because you can’t rush freshly-made paella. It reminds you to slow the hell down.

And while I adore London and all its imperfections, I can’t wait for my next trip to the Mediterranean coast.

Valencia, Spain

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  • joel
    Maybe I should heard there after a week in Oxford, instead of Paris. Looks lovely
  • may
    Do both! When’s your trip? The legendary Las Fallas festival is on in Valencia from next week
  • Very appropriate posting for my current mood! Love the video...
  • i pick valencia! (not that i've ever been to paris...) wish i'd gone. i'm determined to eat more jamon than anyone thought possible.

    fun video, but the hammy bits got me twitching excitedly.. a bit too much. i went to cry in the pork room in a dubai supermarket after.
  • Great video and good to know more people are discovering Valencia
  • I've been meaning to make Siesta into a bill. I think that pause in the middle of everything allows us to de-stress, which is very crucial, especially at this time. We might all be driven to insanity if we don't sit around and breath.
  • may
    Graham: the pic on your blog makes me wish I was staying for Fallas

    Niki: Want a campaign manager?
  • Prawn and mayo sarnie? You're brave ... tho' I suppose it's so cold the bacteria can't grow.

    Adri: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AuXLcvPPJMU
  • Jun
    Hey May!
    I have to say this video is the best you've made so far. Well done! :)
  • Adriana
    great description of Valencia! I lived there for 1.5 yrs... at first I was irritated by the slow pace, until I embraced it! great website!!!
  • may
    jun, adriana - thanks!

    i reckon people only really like this one because i'm not yapping away like i do on the other vids :P
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